Because I Can.

I have a friend who is on a mission who I have written at least...4-5 times since he has been out and not once have I gotten a reply. At first I thought it was because of his controlling girlfriend but then thought maybe he was just busy? I've had missionaries respond back to me months after I have written them a letter and it was because they were busy. So I thought that if I just occasionally write to him and he at least gets it...then hey, at least he is getting mail! Nope. The girlfriend (who thankfully is now his ex girlfriend) was just controlling and crazy. After she wrote him off, he emailed me a few weeks after asking me for my address and that he wanted to send me a letter. I decided to just write him one so he would get a letter in his mailbox and then, again, wait for a response. Welp, I got the response today and this is what part of it says...actually, this is how the letter starts off...

"OLIVIA!!! WHAT IS UP!! So your probably wondering why I haven't written you back...Well see I use to have this girl who didn't like you and didn't want me to write you back but now the chick is gone so I finally get to write you!"

There is so much more to the letter but...I don't want to come off even more mean then I'm about to in this post :) REALLY??? First off, lets start from the beginning. This chick got pissed off at me for going for her ex boyfriend. I know, you think "girl code" and how you don't go for your friends ex boyfriends but I didn't even know the chick so it didn't even matter. I used to think she was mad at me because I took her boyfriend (Paul) "away" but later I heard that she hated me because she accused of me cheating with Paul when they were still dating. HAHAHA! First off, if you know Paul he cannot lie for his life! He instantly feels guilty if he tries to lie so no, I'm sorry, Paul just didn't like you anymore. Hard reality but get over it. When Paul and I started dating, almost all the girls my age did not like me. They were all friends with this chick as well and honestly, whether those girls realized it or not, took sides and chose to be with this chick. Note that this all happened literally just weeks after I joined the church. So there I was, with practically no girl friends and the girls I had were about to leave for college so I was all alone. Well, Paul obviously had my back and eventually, one by one the guys started to have my back. I remember one of the guys specifically telling me at bowling how he liked me wayyyyyyyy better then this other chick! I think it only pissed this chick more because no joke, I hung out with those guys every.single.day summer of 08. 

Those of you who already knew who I was talking about within the first sentence of this post probably think I'm a beezy. Go ahead, think that. But you know what, I'm just sick of trying to be nice to her.  There is no point in trying to create a friendship with her. I feel like I've tried so many times but then find out other things she has said about me or what she makes people do to me.

Sometimes you got to be mean in order to make people listen to you. So, this is me telling you that sorry if you felt like I took everything that was good to you in your life back in high school. I know, high school. Sad this is still going on. Trust me, you are messing with the wrong person. I may be a different person now that I've joined the church but deep down, the old me can come out and I don't mind taking it out on you.

♥ The Girl Who Doesn't Take Crap From Anyone